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FACING REALITY

I have had problems recently to come to terms with some issues I face in life. I have tried to hide my issues to the world but to no avail. They still find a way to show their ugly face to the world.I am who I am. There are some things in life we need to face even though we don't want them. Facts will always be facts regardless of what our opinions are.

Most of us try to live our lives in illusions. Preferring to show only the best sides of our lives. I have met several people who borrow clothes and other things from friends just to show that they are well to do when they are not. In fact I know of a person who managed to convince a girl to marry him because of materials belonging to his friends. You can guess what happened after the girl found out.

Its a fact that some things that happen to us are not good to be known by our friends, girlfriends or workmates but to live a life completely different from what we are supposed to live is not good. I have tried it and it doesn't work. You end up being a slave. You don't have peace of mind which is an important ingredient in life's success.

We all need to face some realities in life. We need to accept some things and find a way of sorting them out or asking for help. If you have a problem and you choose to hide it, you will hinder others who might help you. Once i discovered this fact of life I am a very free person. I am free to dress in any way and go to any place i want to go without thinking of what people will say about me.

Life is hard for impostors or those who live double lives. Just come out of your senses and live your own life regardless of what people will say about your situations. There are some situations we face which we cannot change or overturn. Just accept the reality and plan to move forward. Real and original people are making it big in life because they are just playing their real game.


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  1. well man this is good. double lives never pay. you end up facing the bad side of life. every good example is judas escaliot. he tried to live a double life and everybody knows what happened to him at the end.

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