Who in the world does not need it? Presidents, heroes, slaves, pastors, me, you, everybody needs it unless if you are an alien in this part of the living called Earth. This thing makes a person to be complete. Without it, man will always remain incomplete. No wonder we have real cases in our world where by people go beyond the extremes in search for it. Some use magic, prayers, money, lies and power. Some become stupid, fools, idiots and some even kill just for that little thing that man cannot do without. When man fails to get it, what awaits him/her is some creature that wears different ugly faces. Some kill them safes, go mad or become serial killers in short man becomes something else that is completely different from himself/herself. What do you think is the thing I am talking about? I am talking about “LOVE”.
People I know like my mother, my uncle, my beloved aunt Mercy, my girlfriend and friends have made sacrifices for me and all the sacrifices were done in the name of love. Some made the same for you as well and you have made some for others too. For me, let me tell you the truth, I have made a lot and a lot more for people both close to me and some who were never my friends. Telling you the truth, many people never appreciate what I did to them and in the end, what I got were terrible things. Everybody who knows how to give love to someone can agree with me that when giving love to someone you expect that person to appreciate and show at least that your love means something to them but whenever they don’t show that they appreciate, it breaks the heart. Some people takes for granted the love they receive and they always say that it was suppose to be or its their responsibility to love me but they forget that being loved is the cry for everybody and to love somebody is a choice. One can choose to love or not.
Let us face it, there are some of us who knows how to love and there are those who gets a lot of love but do not appreciate. Now the problem is, when one chooses to love somebody, it settles in the mind and for it to be removed it is not easy and if it succeeds, it gets out with a lot of pains. When love is betrayed, it breaks the spirit and that is the hardest part of man to heal. We constantly remember how much we loved someone but it did not mean anything to them or they did not give it back in return. When love is lost it is so hard to get it back, even if we manage to get it back it does not come back as it was before. It loses its quality, favor, cent and meaning. It is only the love of God that is never devalued by man’s actions but man’s love wears thin each time it is broken.
As many are busy hurting others by not appreciating and giving back the love they are getting, many are also wandering around looking for the same love others are taking for granted. Never put another man’s love to test because you might go beyond limits and breaks it. Always bear it in mind that people are different and they have limits where they can take things. Others endure for long period while others do not. One little thing, might make one to lose his/her love. Always know the most fragile part of a man is the heart where love resides.
The people who love most are not loved much. Yes, this is true except for a lucky few. Loving somebody is a risk because the one we love might break our hearts but there is nothing much we can do about it. If we stop loving, we will not be ourselves. Some of us were born just to love. Let us keep on loving even if we don’t get it back. For you who are loved, look at it as a privilege. Never ever think that it was meant to be. Someone out there is looking for the same thing. Remember there are always substitutes to each and every game.
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