Oh! I should have known!

When you dance to the devil’s tune, on a devil’s dancing floor and you dance with the devil himself never expect that he will change his dancing steps to yours but rather he will change you. You can never be in control in a devils castle. One would ask how does one end up dancing with the devil in the first place? First, he traces your mind and gets to your weakest area from where he sits down and opens a very powerful and effective workshop. He works in your mind and corrupts it. What happens next is the changing of a man from better to worse. What remains of him/her is a shadow of the former person he/she was. Then people will start to wonder what has happened to the man. Questions they would ask but answers they will not find. Trying to trace the origin of the sudden change of the person, you will find out that there is a parasite living in the person.
I know you are wondering, what is up with the devil’s issue? Yeah, it is just a figurative description of people who are undeservedly called friends. These types of friends I would call them bloodsuckers’ friends. Before I processed let me put it bluntly here, every type of relationship/friendship has an element of exploitation but what matters most is the degree at which one is exploiting the other and at which one is being exploited. I do not really know if you will agree with me but take it from me, it is true. Now, these bloodsuckers’ type of friends what they do is that they look in us and try to find if we have a gift, talents, skill, and blessings. When they find these things they will try to get to us just to use what we have and most definitely they will use them to their advantage but in return, they leave a big hole of corruption.
They know exactly what we like and they will tell us only what will be pleasing to our ears. The real things are hidden so that we should not be disappointed. The only things they tell us are good things only. They praise us and fill our ears with sweet lies. As time goes by we tend to like them and trusting them follows. We make sure that they get the best from us. We confide with the most hidden things that nobody else knows out of a belief they are worthy to trust. They pretend to have our interest in their hearts. The only thing they try not to mess up is failing to enrich themselves with our gifts, skill, talents, and blessings. What happens to us after that is none of their business. They suck our good things without mercy and they leave nothing good in return.
There are times when one makes a mistake and these types of friends will never rebuke. The one who rebukes when one has made a mistake is far much better than a man who showers praises when one has achieved. As much as a lot of us hate to be rebuked and criticized but a fellow who criticizes us constructively is a better person to share our wealth with than a man who never rebukes us when we make a slip-up. There are times we know that we have to make a blunder and comes a friend and tell us that we have done good or just pretends as if nothing has happened. Just know that you have a gold-digger.
What we have to bear in mind is that not everybody who is called a friend has got real good wishes for us. Some are fair weather friends. When they get what they wanted from you, they dump you because you are no more use to them. This is the world where everything is not is as it seems. Therefore, a lot of caution is supposed to be taken when making friends and relationships. Caution is supposed to be taken in all sectors of life. Choose wisely and spare yourself the pains of betrayal. The best of friends are friends who are always there in all times. They praise and rebuke us where and when it is necessary. We can never be better if we are not rebuked and corrected. Therefore, those people who never correct us are the people who do not want us to be better. In simple terms, they do not love us. Make a better choice today and protect yourselves from tomorrow’s lifetime regrets.