Have ever asked yourself about what you are worthy? What is it that can be able to buy you? A man who doesn’t understand him or herself will never know his or her value or what he or she is worthy. A certain wise man said, ”You’re what you think.” A man becomes what he or she thinks. Your mind is like a garden and you’re like the gardener. If you don’t weed the garden anything that chooses to grow in the garden will grow and in the end, you will have a garden that is filled with a lot of weeds that are useless. They just take up the nutrients that were supposed to be used by a crop that could have been profitable to you. So this is what people who see the garden will say, “What a useless garden. What benefit is the gardener getting from it? Or maybe is the gardener himself who is useless for failing to weed it?” in other words what they are saying is that both are useless for they are failing to come up with good things out themselves. They are valueless.
So unweeded mind will lender itself useless so will it also be true with the host. We have people who are so corrupt that they don’t really care about themselves and most of them don’t give a damn about others as well. If one has a weak mind sees him or herself as useless if something goes wrong or if one messes up. So because of this, they end up losing themselves by exchanging themselves with things that are far from their value. Some join groups that don’t conform to their standard and value.
In desperate situations, some tend to go for anything that comes along. They join the anything-goes club, the club that does not care about values and standards of themselves. Some men when they are frustrated at home they end up having relationships with ladies that are far worse than the value of their wives and themselves. This also happens to women who end up sleeping with watchmen, gardeners and their drivers’, people who are far less in value and quality than their partners. These things show the devaluation of the person in value.
So what it means here is that everything starts from one’s mind. The mind that is not well tendered produces an irrational character and builds a low self-esteem spirit that tells us that we are useless and anything can suit us regardless of its value and quality. So, by all means, be able to say no to anything that is not of your value and standard. Even a hooker sometimes turns down a client if they see that he’s worse than worse even if he offers her more cash for the service.
You have to know what you are worthy and then you can also be able to know the value of others. Even in the hopeless situation not all kind of help will be equal to your value. Don’t just go for anything. Know that the way you value yourself others will value you on the same level and this determines the respect you will get from them (people). No man is of no value. Don’t really care what people say about you. Stand up because you have a better value but this does not mean that you have been proud and regard others useless. If you dare do this you’re worse than a man without value.
So unweeded mind will lender itself useless so will it also be true with the host. We have people who are so corrupt that they don’t really care about themselves and most of them don’t give a damn about others as well. If one has a weak mind sees him or herself as useless if something goes wrong or if one messes up. So because of this, they end up losing themselves by exchanging themselves with things that are far from their value. Some join groups that don’t conform to their standard and value.
In desperate situations, some tend to go for anything that comes along. They join the anything-goes club, the club that does not care about values and standards of themselves. Some men when they are frustrated at home they end up having relationships with ladies that are far worse than the value of their wives and themselves. This also happens to women who end up sleeping with watchmen, gardeners and their drivers’, people who are far less in value and quality than their partners. These things show the devaluation of the person in value.
So what it means here is that everything starts from one’s mind. The mind that is not well tendered produces an irrational character and builds a low self-esteem spirit that tells us that we are useless and anything can suit us regardless of its value and quality. So, by all means, be able to say no to anything that is not of your value and standard. Even a hooker sometimes turns down a client if they see that he’s worse than worse even if he offers her more cash for the service.
You have to know what you are worthy and then you can also be able to know the value of others. Even in the hopeless situation not all kind of help will be equal to your value. Don’t just go for anything. Know that the way you value yourself others will value you on the same level and this determines the respect you will get from them (people). No man is of no value. Don’t really care what people say about you. Stand up because you have a better value but this does not mean that you have been proud and regard others useless. If you dare do this you’re worse than a man without value.
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